Help For Hurting and Struggling Parents and Kids
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Are you feeling worried, confused, overwhelmed, or frustrated?
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Stable Living helps reduce anxiety, stress, and depression and increases self-confidence, self-esteem, and hope.

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Stable Living uses principles inspired by horses to help country teens thrive. We provide a framework that equips teens with tools for healthier decision-making, helping reduce risks like depression, addiction, and teen pregnancy.
Our parent program is all about finding peace, easing stress, and growing into a more confident, calm leader for your family.



Parents, is any of this familiar to you?

A teen who seems lost, overwhelmed, or out of control
Relationships with your child filled with tension, hurt, or distance
Constant battles with screens, video games, or social media
Nothing you try—punishments, lectures, or negotiations—seem to work
Exhaustion from micromanaging or over-parenting because you feel you have no other choice
Struggles with divorce, blended family dynamics, or major transitions
Watching your child battle anxiety, depression, or self-doubt
Struggling to manage your emotions, yelling, or snapping
Feeling disrespected or shut out by your teen
Sibling fights that escalate to chaos
Angry outbursts, defiance, or refusal to cooperate
A shy or withdrawn child who struggles to connect with peers
Rebellion against rules, school refusal, or complete shutdowns
Feeling trapped in negative parenting cycles and unsure how to change
If any of this resonates, you are not alone—and there is hope. At Stable Living Coaching, we’ve been there. We understand what it’s like to feel helpless, heartbroken, or unsure of how to reach your child. Using powerful lessons inspired by the way horses live, interact, and thrive, we’ll equip you and your teen with tools to create a path to a healthier, happier life.

You don’t have to keep struggling. We can help.

Whatever you’re going through, we’re here for you.
Our Coaches help teens and parents work through overwhelming emotions and find practical solutions to life’s toughest moments.

When we learn to manage our minds, we can break free from stress, fear, and frustration. Instead of feeling stuck, we find hope, strength, and a clear path forward.

Help your family take that step today.

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STABLE LIVING ONLINE COACHING PROGRAMS:

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Stable Living For Teens

Life Skills and Tools for Country Kids
Increasing Self-Confidence
Believing in Dreams
Accessing Personal Horsepower
Communicating for Connecting
Excelling as an Adult
Adolescence is a time of life filled with stress and uncertainty. The way teens respond to these challenges will define their future.

Stable Living Coaching helps families through this difficult season by equipping teens with the tools to understand their emotions and build unshakable confidence—so they can thrive today and step into adulthood with strength and purpose.
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Stable Living For Parents

Reducing Anxiety
Solving Stress and Overwhelm
Letting Go of Guilt and Shame
Leading with Love
Gaining Peace of Mind
Thriving as a Proud Parent
The most important way to love and support your child is by becoming the parent they truly need.

Stable Living Coaching helps you let go of guilt and overwhelm, giving you the tools to handle challenges with confidence and clarity. You’ll create a calmer home, stronger connections, and a foundation of peace that sets your family up for lasting success.
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Hi, I'm Shane.

Like most teens, I had my share of struggles. I made bad decisions that hurt people I cared about. Later, as a parent, I faced the challenges of raising kids and often felt unprepared and inadequate, even when I was trying my best. Searching for answers, I began studying human behavior and noticed clear connections between what I learned working with horses and the struggles we face in life.

Inspired by these insights, I developed Stable Living Coaching—a program designed to help teens and parents overcome the challenges so many of us face. The Stable Living Program is built on principles that create a solid (Stable) foundation for a better life. These principles are inspired by how horses connect—with each other and with people. As you embrace these ideas and apply them within yourself and your family, you’ll discover your own personal “horsepower.” You’ll feel more hopeful, more connected, and more excited about what lies ahead.

I'm Shane Jacob, Head Coach at The Horsemanship Journey.

Each week I release a free video message with tips on creating and maintaining healthy parent/child relationships. I call my weekly video - "You Are Destined For Greatness" because I have full faith that you my friend, were born to be extraordinary!

So sign up, kick back, and get ready to wrangle some wisdom!

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